Love At First Site; Can It Be?
Many men and women believe in love at first sight. They say that they just knew from the first time they saw each other that he or she was the one for them.
There really is no direct scientific research information available to prove or disprove the theory about falling in love instantly. So really, it is more of an individual belief and is based on how each person perceives things.
Emotional attachment at first sight (falling in love) is when you have a very strong, immediate connection to someone as soon as you see them. In most cases there does not have to be even a single word uttered. Once you see this person there is an immediate feeling of needing to be with that person. And, the feeling does not go away with time. If you are truly meant to be with that someone, then there is no way really to get rid of your feelings associated with them.
Although it is termed love at first sight, there are certain instances where the feelings involved do not actually include love. There will always be some sort of very strong emotional bond however. Whether it is love, longing, or just sexual energy, something is going to exist between you and the other person. This can all be termed love at first sight. It can also be the doorway to a happy, lasting relationship.
There are many people today that say that their relationships were based on love at first sight. For example, look at the commercials that eHarmony has all over the internet right now. These people say that they knew right off that the person they met was the one that they were meant to be with.
Many of these couples have been together for years now and are still very committed to each other and happy in their relationships. The interesting thing about these people is that they initially saw each other for the first time through photos of each other on the internet. Many people see this as a very strong testimonial to the fact that love at first sight does indeed exist and is a very strong power.
Emotional Bonding
Emotional bonding when meeting someone can happen anywhere, at any time. You could be walking down the street and see someone that you are immediately emotionally charged about. Perhaps, you are at work and a co-worker, customer, or salesperson walks by. Or, maybe you are browsing profiles on an online dating site. All of these scenarios have the potential for opening up a strong bond with your special one. There are no set rules about where or how the connection can occur. It is very open and very broad. This is in reality what increases skepticism about the realness of love at first sight.
In most cases when someone finds their mate via a love at first site encounter then that relationship lasts for a lifetime. However, what might seem to be love at first site is not always the case and as time goes by these relationships begin to pull apart.
Men Pull Away and Withdraw
Men are more likely to just quietly withdraw from a relationship emotionally even though they don't actually cause a breakup of the marriage or living arrangement.
 Women are really in charge of making sure that this doesn't happen. Yes, women need their needs met also but they can ensure this is the case by applying the Paleolithic Principle in their life with their man. When they do then he will find that he wants to do everything he can to keep the love of his life with him because she is the one who truly understands him and makes him happy, and he won't even really know why he feels that way. He will never want to withdraw or lose interest in the relationship. And whether or not the relationship started out as love at first sight it will be a bond between you and him that is loving and rock-solid forever.
All About Love:
"Caring and protecting is loving but it should not go to the extent of confinment ." - Unknown
"It doesn't take a lot of words to show love sometimes just a gentle hug will do. " - Unknown
"It takes many kind, caring words to build a loving bond but only one of two hurtful words in the heat of an argument to destroy it ." - Unknown
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